dammit.

Thanks so much for your comment!

There are a TON of ways to define sexy… attractiveness… beauty.
As women, we tend to get very rigid in our personal definition. For example, we must be a certain height, certain hair color, certain weight.

Thank you for supporting us to love ourselves “as is” and for reminding us that the more confident and accepting of ourselves that we are, the sexier we become.

You’re a doll. Come back anytime.

Susan

As a guy I recognise great looking women everyday and whilst it would be fair to say there’s a ‘type’ that I might gravitate towards most, i can confirm that all sorts of women are sexy and i think a lot of that is how confident they are and how happy they are with their body and self image.

Honesty is always a virtue

- Susan

I attended Woodstock ‘99 and remember seeing a sign in a few places that read, “Big or small, we love them all.”

In retrospect, I spent my 20’s beating up on myself for not looking ‘right’(I was a size In my 30’s I became unhealthily obsessed with looking ‘perfect’ – enter the eating disorder – and down to a size 4.
Now I’m 40-ish, beat the eating disorder and looking back, thinking: God how I WISH I could have the body now that I had then. You know, back then when I was complaining about it.
Now back to a size 8 – and things aren’t quite as firm as they used to be and you know what? That’s just fine. My legs propel me through marathons, and are in training to bounce a grandchild on them. They’re good legs. My breast nourished children. They’re good breasts. My belly carried those kids and hid their crying faces against it to sheild them from the world for a moment. It’s a good belly. My round behind proudly proclaims my middle-eastern heritage (and thank you Kim Kardashian for making that ‘vogue) It’s a good butt.
I am not model thin. But I am strong, healthy and energetic. And what’s sexier than that?

Peace,
Gypsy

You are an amazing woman to be able to write the things you do with such candor!

At 50 I feel very sexy or as I would call it “womanly.” I’ve come to realize its more a state of mind than anything else. I don’t necessarily dress sexy, but I believe I carry myself, my body, with a confidence that says I like myself, and that comes across as sexy! I eat right, exercise and treat myself with loving kindness. If I donn’t, who will?

Best to you,
Myriam

All you have is today. You may not be on this planet tomorrow. Enjoy exactly what you have an exactly who you are NOW. YOu should not put the really really fun stuff on hold until you lose those last 10lbs…you could be working on those last 10 lbs the rest of your life. WHY WAIT?

And, guess what, some men PREFER saggy breasts, big butts, a little pooch around the tummy. Granted, some men are into toned and sculpted – but my point is that if there are equal amount of men that love BIG HUGE breasts as there are men who love ITTY BITTY breasts, that that would hold true on body size preferences, too.

Confidence is what REALLY turns people on and just OWN IT! Own who you are right now and enjoy life and all the pleasures that your body can bring – size 2 or size 22!

Can you tell I feel strongly about this issue? I am a size 22 and I an here to ENJOY who I am now at this very moment – not who the media tells me I should be.

Happy Memorial Day Weekend!

Blissfully, Chrystal

Howard